You’re working up a sweat on the treadmill and feeling good about yourself. You look over and the person next to you is running at a higher speed and incline, and with ease. Suddenly, you have that sinking feeling that you are not enough. They were born with running genes, you convince yourself, or are wearing some super shoes that give them an edge. You won’t admit it, but that’s jealousy making you feel inadequate, and you react by finding faults or putting others down.
It may make you feel better, but only briefly and you’ll end up feeling worse because that is not associated with who you really are. Turn things around by being honest about how you feel: Sure, they have something you don’t or they’re able to do something you can’t, yet. Then, instead of criticizing, compliment them about it. You may make a friend and get some good advice for upping your running game!